"you can't fight the things that happen in your life. You can however use those things to benefit you in determining the future." Kash Sobhe

I have learned that human beings don't have the power to fight big things that occur in their life. This should not be a reason for them backing down either. They can use these events and turn it in a way which will benefit them and their surroundings. An example would be when someone dies. Everyone including me just cries and regrets why that person did not live long enough. You can never change what has happened. But instead of thinking about the down side of this, why don't you ever appreciate the fact that you were given the chance to be with and spend time with that person. Death is something that is very hard to deal with. Humans have a hard time accepting death as a part of life and they always want to gain and never lose. You have to lose things in order to make space in your life to gain other things. with out death life will not exist and that is part of the reason why death is not something to be feared, but something to be understood.